WHY ABORTION IS NOT WOMEN'S FAULT
WOMEN DON'T JUST "GET" PREGNANT. PREGNANCY CAN ONLY OCCUR WHEN A MAN CHOOSES VAGINAL RELEASE (VR)
A NOVEL IDEA? NOT REALLY.
Women do not get pregnant spontaneously by themselves. In order to become pregnant, a man must put his semen into her vagina, during the time her eggs are fertile. Women's eggs are only fertile for approximately 24 hours each month, which means men have to be particularly irresponsible, or intentional, to create pregnancy. The act of a man releasing his sperm vaginally is commonly referred to as "VR" or "vaginal release" referring to this one specific act that creates pregnancy.
MEN PREVENT PREGNANCY BETTER
Pregnancy is easy for men to prevent, and hard for women to prevent. For men to prevent pregnancy, they must only wear protection, or avoid release into a vagina. It's really that simple. For women to prevent pregnancy, they must clock their periods, make doctor appointments, take time off work, try several birth control methods, manage varying side effects, and bear 100% of the expense of all of these. Even then, it is not always effective.
LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION
Consent, age, and enjoyment are not factors. It is only the location that matters. If a man aims his sperm directly into a vagina, he should either be planning for children, or trust his partner to manage her own body.
Except for cases of despicable acts like rape, men hold 100% responsibility for where they decide to plant their seeds. Men should not pretend to be mystified by pregnancy, while planting seeds nonstop in the pregnancy field.
Imagine a Baker who works all day to make a cake. He knows what to do so that it comes out the way he wants. He mixes his ingredients, opens the oven door, and puts his masterpiece inside to bake. Let's follow this logically...
MEN HAVE THE INGREDIENTS
The Baker has the necessary ingredients to make the cake.
The oven does not have the necessary ingredients to make the cake.
MEN CONTROL THEIR PLACEMENT
The cake will only bake if the Baker puts his ingredients inside the oven.
The Baker can avoid getting a cake, by not putting his ingredients inside the oven.
ONLY MEN HAVE THIS ABILITY
The oven cannot ever make it's own cake.
If the Baker puts his ingredients inside, a cake is likely.
CONCLUSION: The Baker makes 100% of all the cakes.
If we follow this logic, we can see that pregnancies do not occur without men causing them directly. The idea that women should be 100% responsible for pregnancy and birth control is an old and quickly fading idea. Fortunately, the exact opposite is actually true, which is radically freeing for women's bodies, minds, and spirits.
BREATHE GIRL... IT'S LITERALLY NOT YOUR FAULT
1. MEN ARE MORE FERTILE THAN WOMEN
Most times a woman has sex, she will not become pregnant, because her egg is not always fertile. But every time a man has sex, he can potentially impregnate someone, because he is always fertile.
WOMEN: UNPREDICATABLY FERTILE FOR ONLY 24 HOURS A MONTH
MEN: PREDICTABLY FERTILE 24 HOURS EVERY DAY UNTIL DEATH
WOMEN: CREATES 1 PREGNANCY PER YEAR
MEN: CREATES DOZENS OF PREGNANCIES IN 1 YEAR
2. MEN OFTEN TRY TO GET OUT OF SAFE SEX
"No one is forcing you to have unprotected sex!" or "Just make him wear a condom!" are common phrases women hear, as if it such a simple task to be responsible for both parties.
In reality, even loving partners try to get out of safe sex all the time, prioritizing their pleasure over safety and potential pregnancy. This should not occur. Men who claim condoms "don't feel as good" are usually:
1. Not using enough lube
2. Unpracticed at using condoms
3. Have not experimented with enough brands
Encourage your partner to practice more and experiment with more brands, lubes and flavors to see the differences. Men who use condoms regularly are confident, and do not find any noticeable difference in personal pleasure. Men who are confident with safe sex also report fewer inhibitions from partners, who feel safe exploring new things with them.
HOW TO RESPOND TO EXCUSES:
WEAK EXCUSES
Condoms don't feel as good / I can't afford them / I am allergic to latex / They don't fit or always break on me (wink!) / It ruins the moment / I might not stay up
HOW TO REPLY
No problem, we don't have to have sex / That's funny - here's a condom! / Ok, I've got to get going then / This is not negotiable / I don't want a baby / Children ruin the moment / Try the non allergic kind / It will be worth it, I promise / Yes you can afford them / I want to try some new things with you but want to feel safe / We have not gotten tested yet / It's my policy / You're no fun
3. BLAME VS RESPONSBILITY
If pregnancy and abortion is not women's fault, does that mean she has no responsibility to prevent it? Does it mean women get a free pass to sex without consequence? Relax, Boomer - sex has never been consequence free for women, and it still isn't.
Women have always, and should always be as responsible as possible to protect themselves from foreign bodily fluids that can cause disease or pregnancy. However, the level of responsibility is not the same, and places far more on the man. While women cannot ever control the fertility or location of her egg, men always know they are fertile, and do control the location of their semen.
For this reason, it is not women who determine when a pregnancy might occur - her eggs and fertility are never within her control. It is only when a man decides to expel his semen vaginally that a woman can become pregnant. This is not a matter of "blame", but of actual responsibility. If a man expels anywhere else on the planet, no pregnancy will occur, no matter what the woman does.
